Archive for March, 2007

Sophie Lee, creator of IBS Tales, chronicles her own personal battle

Friday, March 30th, 2007

If you look at my “Reviews & In the News” page, you’ll notice a new book review for Romance, Riches, and Restrooms written by Sophie Lee. She’s the IBS sufferer in the U.K. who created IBS Tales - a wonderful site where people with IBS can connect with each other by sharing their experiences with what is so often an embarrassing and isolating disorder. I bookmarked her site several years ago and have been a frequent visitor ever since.

Yet, despite spending hours reading through the site’s hundreds of personal stories (I’m masochistically partial to the “Embarrassing Tales” category), I somehow missed what is perhaps the site’s true gem. You see, in addition to running IBS Tales, launching a separate IBS treatment review site, and frequently updating her own blog, Sophie also found the time and energy to write her own E-book. It’s called IBS and Me: Living with Irritable Bowel Syndrome. I recently had the pleasure of reading it.

Wait. I left out one very important point that will only make the case for reading this E-book even more compelling. It’s FREE! That’s right, you can read Sophie’s story on her site or download a PDF file by subscribing to her newsletter. Now, on to the review…

When you first look at the length of this E-book – at 62 pages, it’s certainly compact – you might assume that it’s light on substance. But that would be a mistake because the “good things come in small packages” principle definitely applies here.
Putting her professional experience as a journalist to expert use, Sophie manages to skillfully compress fifteen years of living with constipation-predominant IBS into an engaging, easy-to-read, and yes, quite often funny, “mini-memoir” that just about any IBS sufferer will easily identify with. She carefully selects only the most relevant personal anecdotes, wisely avoids overloading the narrative with too much dry, factual IBS information, and picks just the right spots to lighten up the mood with refreshing doses of dry, self-deprecating British wit that will definitely make you chuckle out loud.

What I liked most about this story is its focus on not only the physical symptoms, but also on the day-to-day psychological mindset and the toll that IBS took on her confidence. As I know from personal experience, once IBS hits your confidence, every aspect of your life becomes exponentially more challenging and difficult to cope with.

The main reason Sophie shared her personal journey in such a public way was because she wanted to let other IBS sufferers know that they are not alone with the life challenges they face, and she also wanted to share all the helpful information she’s accumulated over the years. And she’s really done a terrific job. But don’t take my word for it. Go check it out for yourself! You’ll be glad you did.

- Tim
 

A HYSTERICAL New Book Review!

Wednesday, March 14th, 2007

This came out yesterday, and it made me laugh so hard that I had to share it here. In my opinion, the blogger/book reviewer, who goes by the name “Tabitha,” has penned one of the most original, amusing, and creative (not to mention enthusiastic!) reviews I’ve seen for my book. THANKS, Tabitha!!

I’ve posted the entire review below, but to see the original post and also read some of Tabitha’s other book reviews, go directly to Tabitha’s site.

-Tim

Monday, March 12, 2007

Romance, Riches, and Restrooms

       

Romance, Riches, and Restrooms: A Cautionary Tale of Ambitious Dreams and Irritable Bowels by Tim Phelan
(iUniverse / 0-595-38544-3 / May 2006 / 268 pages / $19.95)

Cue up The William Tell Overture, please. A fiery horse with the speed of light, a cloud of dust, and a hearty… Who was that running man? That was Tim Phelan, Kemo Sabe. Indian call him Running Man with Fire in Caboose! Him not need horse. He already got the trots.

Yes, sports fans, this book really is about the most secret of subject matter, the squirts, the trots, the Mexican two-step, the runs, to the bathroom, that is. Tim Phelan has written a memoir in which only the names of those who have known Pepe le Pew intimately have been changed. Mr. Phelan has been congratulated for his guts, but not for his intestinal fortitude. He has been spotted with his precious backpack loaded with emergency apparel clutched closely to his chest as he sprints toward the exits in a somewhat awkward running style. Did you know he was a triathlete? I’m not kidding: he can run with the best of ‘em. He almost turned pro!

Aside from training for the big triathlon, chasing girls, trying to build a high-powered career, successfully building a high-powered neurosis, and single-handedly keeping Pepto-Bismal in business, he found the time to write a book. It was a book only he could write, and no one else dared to write. The jokes are numerous, and the embarrassing moments, as well as a bunch of other stuff, are out of control. If you think a twelve-year-old buying rubbers for the first time is funny, how about a handsome, eligible bachelor trying to escape the corner drugstore with Fleet enema products in the bag? The author has it bad and he will try anything at least once. If you think Steve Martin and Sarah Jessica Parker had a funny scene in L. A. Story, then Romance, Riches, and Restrooms will leave you rolling on the floor. Try not to laugh while you read the book in your personal library room. You might not want to roll on that floor!

Aside from the obvious powder-room embarrassment and laughter, this is a somewhat serious book for those genuine sufferers of IBS. If you have it, or know someone who does, Tim Phelan’s tale of woe has been written specifically for you. The storyline will relieve some of your anguish with joy, and let you feel very much not alone in your embarrassing little private world. Mr. Phelan has obviously joined many others in an official capacity to aid others inflicted with IBS. Contact information for the national societies and organizations concerning IBS are listed in the back of this very professionally composed, arranged, and edited book. As for the dreaded typographical error count that I so diligently monitor in all the books I review, Romance, Riches, and Restrooms has true star power. This book has been as perfectly proofread as any POD book I have read. Congratulations, Tim, you have come officially out of the closet, the water closet, that is!