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“Award-Winning” IBS Memoir

Wednesday, May 28th, 2008

It’s time to crack open the Cuervo Gold!!!

And break out some fresh limes…and triplesec, too!!!

Oh yeah - It’s margarita time, baby!

Hey, it probably wouldn’t hurt to pull that ice-cold bottle of jagermeister out of the freezer, either…(no, NOT in the same glass)

…Why? Because it’s time to celebrate!!!!!!

Yes, I am thrilled to share the exciting news that my IBS memoir has won its very first book award!!! Last week, the Independent Publisher Book Awards (aka the “IPPY” awards) announced the results of their 2008 competition…and Romance, Riches, and Restrooms won a Bronze Medal in the national autobiography/memoir category. To see the official results announcement and learn more about the IPPY Awards, click here. (more…)

Romance, Riches, and Restrooms Gets “Breakout” Review from POD Critic

Wednesday, April 18th, 2007

Humorous, offbeat IBS memoirs – apparently they’re not just for IBS sufferers anymore. Well, that’s the message that I took away from this latest book review, which was posted this morning by the blogger known as POD Critic. Of course, you’ll want to read the entire critique, but here’s a little preview to tide you over:

“Tim Phelan’s Romance, Riches, and Restrooms treats us to something quite rare: we get to peer into the mind and life of an individual who, through this unabashed memoir, allows us to become intimately familiar with him, and his “functional” disorder. Peppered with humor and the hilarious situations experienced by the author, the book expertly demonstrates the great burden shouldered by IBS sufferers, who must daily walk a tightrope of social scrutiny that no human being should be forced to. 

The author’s struggles with the disorder are penned with a rare precision that is at times enrapturing—given the level of writing—and at times as suspenseful as anything I’ve read in a good mystery. Some scenes will leave you on the edge of your seat…

In short, the book is an impressive contribution that is as important for its subject matter as for its entertainment value.”

It’s worth noting that POD Critic is the lead editor at a small New York publishing house, who, for the record, does NOT suffer from irritable bowel syndrome. And to me, that’s what’s so significant about his review.

Now, I’d always hoped (and half expected, honestly) that my memoir would one day be received enthusiastically by fellow IBS sufferers, and maybe, if I was very lucky, even by their friends and family, too. And, happily, I’ve been extremely fortunate to see those hopes realized in spades, which has been enormously gratifying. Similarly, I’ve been absolutely blown away to find out that the book has built up a cult following among people afflicted with Crohn’s disease and ulcerative colits – honestly, I never saw that one coming.

But, all the while, I had an even bolder vision for how my story might raise public awareness for IBS on an even larger scale. Ignoring many relevant facts – for example, I’d never written a book before and was blissfully ignorant about the depressingly long odds of succeeding in the publishing business – I had somehow managed to convince myself that my quirky little memoir would find a wide audience beyond the IBS community.

The publishing industry uses the term “crossover” for a title that breaks out of its niche and unexpectedly goes on to enjoy broad, mainstream appeal. Don’t get me wrong – I realize that Romance, Riches, and Restrooms is still a long, long (LONG) way from achieving that kind of mass readership. But in my mind, reviews from publishing professionals like POD Critic offer validation that my wild dreams might not be so unrealistic after all.

-Tim

Sophie Lee, creator of IBS Tales, chronicles her own personal battle

Friday, March 30th, 2007

If you look at my “Reviews & In the News” page, you’ll notice a new book review for Romance, Riches, and Restrooms written by Sophie Lee. She’s the IBS sufferer in the U.K. who created IBS Tales - a wonderful site where people with IBS can connect with each other by sharing their experiences with what is so often an embarrassing and isolating disorder. I bookmarked her site several years ago and have been a frequent visitor ever since.

Yet, despite spending hours reading through the site’s hundreds of personal stories (I’m masochistically partial to the “Embarrassing Tales” category), I somehow missed what is perhaps the site’s true gem. You see, in addition to running IBS Tales, launching a separate IBS treatment review site, and frequently updating her own blog, Sophie also found the time and energy to write her own E-book. It’s called IBS and Me: Living with Irritable Bowel Syndrome. I recently had the pleasure of reading it.

Wait. I left out one very important point that will only make the case for reading this E-book even more compelling. It’s FREE! That’s right, you can read Sophie’s story on her site or download a PDF file by subscribing to her newsletter. Now, on to the review…

When you first look at the length of this E-book – at 62 pages, it’s certainly compact – you might assume that it’s light on substance. But that would be a mistake because the “good things come in small packages” principle definitely applies here.
Putting her professional experience as a journalist to expert use, Sophie manages to skillfully compress fifteen years of living with constipation-predominant IBS into an engaging, easy-to-read, and yes, quite often funny, “mini-memoir” that just about any IBS sufferer will easily identify with. She carefully selects only the most relevant personal anecdotes, wisely avoids overloading the narrative with too much dry, factual IBS information, and picks just the right spots to lighten up the mood with refreshing doses of dry, self-deprecating British wit that will definitely make you chuckle out loud.

What I liked most about this story is its focus on not only the physical symptoms, but also on the day-to-day psychological mindset and the toll that IBS took on her confidence. As I know from personal experience, once IBS hits your confidence, every aspect of your life becomes exponentially more challenging and difficult to cope with.

The main reason Sophie shared her personal journey in such a public way was because she wanted to let other IBS sufferers know that they are not alone with the life challenges they face, and she also wanted to share all the helpful information she’s accumulated over the years. And she’s really done a terrific job. But don’t take my word for it. Go check it out for yourself! You’ll be glad you did.

- Tim
 

A HYSTERICAL New Book Review!

Wednesday, March 14th, 2007

This came out yesterday, and it made me laugh so hard that I had to share it here. In my opinion, the blogger/book reviewer, who goes by the name “Tabitha,” has penned one of the most original, amusing, and creative (not to mention enthusiastic!) reviews I’ve seen for my book. THANKS, Tabitha!!

I’ve posted the entire review below, but to see the original post and also read some of Tabitha’s other book reviews, go directly to Tabitha’s site.

-Tim

Monday, March 12, 2007

Romance, Riches, and Restrooms

       

Romance, Riches, and Restrooms: A Cautionary Tale of Ambitious Dreams and Irritable Bowels by Tim Phelan
(iUniverse / 0-595-38544-3 / May 2006 / 268 pages / $19.95)

Cue up The William Tell Overture, please. A fiery horse with the speed of light, a cloud of dust, and a hearty… Who was that running man? That was Tim Phelan, Kemo Sabe. Indian call him Running Man with Fire in Caboose! Him not need horse. He already got the trots.

Yes, sports fans, this book really is about the most secret of subject matter, the squirts, the trots, the Mexican two-step, the runs, to the bathroom, that is. Tim Phelan has written a memoir in which only the names of those who have known Pepe le Pew intimately have been changed. Mr. Phelan has been congratulated for his guts, but not for his intestinal fortitude. He has been spotted with his precious backpack loaded with emergency apparel clutched closely to his chest as he sprints toward the exits in a somewhat awkward running style. Did you know he was a triathlete? I’m not kidding: he can run with the best of ‘em. He almost turned pro!

Aside from training for the big triathlon, chasing girls, trying to build a high-powered career, successfully building a high-powered neurosis, and single-handedly keeping Pepto-Bismal in business, he found the time to write a book. It was a book only he could write, and no one else dared to write. The jokes are numerous, and the embarrassing moments, as well as a bunch of other stuff, are out of control. If you think a twelve-year-old buying rubbers for the first time is funny, how about a handsome, eligible bachelor trying to escape the corner drugstore with Fleet enema products in the bag? The author has it bad and he will try anything at least once. If you think Steve Martin and Sarah Jessica Parker had a funny scene in L. A. Story, then Romance, Riches, and Restrooms will leave you rolling on the floor. Try not to laugh while you read the book in your personal library room. You might not want to roll on that floor!

Aside from the obvious powder-room embarrassment and laughter, this is a somewhat serious book for those genuine sufferers of IBS. If you have it, or know someone who does, Tim Phelan’s tale of woe has been written specifically for you. The storyline will relieve some of your anguish with joy, and let you feel very much not alone in your embarrassing little private world. Mr. Phelan has obviously joined many others in an official capacity to aid others inflicted with IBS. Contact information for the national societies and organizations concerning IBS are listed in the back of this very professionally composed, arranged, and edited book. As for the dreaded typographical error count that I so diligently monitor in all the books I review, Romance, Riches, and Restrooms has true star power. This book has been as perfectly proofread as any POD book I have read. Congratulations, Tim, you have come officially out of the closet, the water closet, that is!

My Book Featured - and my IBS Dating Woes Exposed - on RevolutionHealth.com!

Monday, January 29th, 2007

A HUGE thanks to “Gastro Girl” (aka Jacqeline Gaulin, the editor for digestive matters over at the recently launched mega-health site, RevolutionHealth.com). Today she used her blog to shine a light on the uniquely embarrassing challenges that single people with IBS - and digestive diseases like Crohn’s and Colitis - face every day in the already-daunting dating arena.

Oh yeah, she also gave my memoir a big, old plug. Yee-Ha!! Take a look for yourself…

Irritated and Single? You can find love!

Tim

How NOT to Conceal Embarrassing Odors at 35,000 feet

Saturday, December 9th, 2006
Okay, here’s something you don’t see everyday.                  

Proving once again that the cover-up is almost always worse than the original crime, this week the news wires were abuzz with this story about an American Airlines flight that was forced to make an emergency landing after a passenger lit a match – yes, a match – to disguise the scent of her flatulence. Although IBS very well could have been at play here, most of the reports only mention that the woman suffers from an “undisclosed medical condition.”

Since it was first reported on December 6th, the tale of this woman’s harrowing midflight ordeal has been buzzing through online forums, chat rooms, and blogs at Mach Two and leaving a series of sonic booms in its wake. Everyone, it seems, has an opinion on how this poor passenger could have better handled her predicament.

Predictably, as someone who has literally spent years worrying about accidentally fouling the collective coach-class air with a substance far more offensive than mere flatulence, I have my own thoughts on the matter.

Since politely excusing yourself to step outside is not a luxury afforded to airline passengers, your first line of defense against all manner of humiliating inflight rectal revolts (gas, solid, or liquid) is good preparation:

  • Always book an aisle seat as close to the plane’s aft lavatory as possible. People seated in these rows expect ungodly smells to regularly waft out of the lavatory and into the main cabin.
  • Never wear khakis or light-colored pants. Should you have an actual accident, as long as you don’t give your fellow passengers any physical evidence to condemn you with, you can still plausibly deny that you are the source of the offending odor.
  • Stowing an extra pair of pants in your carry-on bag can also be a great dignity-salvaging tool. Just remember, to avoid raising suspicious eyebrows on your way back from changing in the lavatory, pack a similar-looking (if not identical) pair.
  • Always look around to locate the nearest babies. With their amazing ability to fill diaper after diaper at will, they are natural and logical scapegoats.
  • A blanket and/or a jacket over draped over your lap will help trap the smell and hopefully prevent it from wreaking its full havoc on any innocent bystanders.
  • What about using a deodorizing spray? Well, the problem is that most of these products don’t kill the smell and they don’t really fool anybody. If it could be developed, I think I may have an idea for the world’s ultimate decoy for embarrassing bodily odors. Yes, I’m talking about bottling the smell of…SKUNK. Think about it. Not only would this pungent scent overwhelm any and every odor in its immediate vicinity, but nobody would ever think to suspect another human being. The looks on people’s prices would be priceless. Yup, that’s a skunk all right. But what in the world is a skunk doing at 35,000 feet???

But whatever you do, unless you want to end up like Richard Reid (aka “the shoe bomber”), do us all a favor and put those matches away!


Researchers at Northwestern University Study the Social Stigma of IBS

Tuesday, November 7th, 2006

Last week I was excited to stumble across a new research study sponsored by the Northwestern Center for Functional Gastrointestinal and Motility Disorders. Unlike other clinical studies designed to determine the causes of IBS or new treatment methods, this online study goes in an entirely different direction and focuses on an area that is particularly near and dear to my heart: the social stigma of IBS.

Rather than attempt to paraphrase what the study seeks to accomplish, I’ll just paste the official description:

The Northwestern Center for Functional GI & Motility Disorders is conducting a research study looking at attitudes and opinions about people who have Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS). The purpose of this study is to develop a questionnaire that would measure social stigma toward those who are affected by IBS that could be used by health care providers to address this important area of quality of life. We are seeking volunteers to complete 3 online questionnaires that include questions about demographic information, attitudes others may have had toward you because you have IBS, and how open you are about your condition. This study should take you approximately 15 minutes to complete.

If you would like to participate, please click here. Also, if you have any questions or concerns about this research, please contact the study coordinator at (312) 694-7717 or FGIDResearch@northwestern.edu

Let me tell you, this was absolutely the easiest study I’ve ever participated in. From the comfort and confidentiality of my home computer, I candidly answered the first-round questionnaire in less than 15 minutes. In about two weeks, I’ll be receiving an email with a second questionnaire to answer. The way I see it, the greatest thing about this study is that it gives people who might otherwise be reluctant to discuss their IBS a rare opportunity to give the medical community honest (and anonymous!) feedback about what it’s really like to live with irritable bowel syndrome. As I’ve said before, the whole reason I wrote Romance, Riches, and Restrooms was to help erase some of the stigma of IBS by getting more people to talk (and laugh, too!) openly about IBS. The bottom line is that any efforts that encourage more open communication about IBS are going to eventually make this an easier condition for all of us to live with. I think this Northwestern study is an exciting and important step in this direction.

So…if you do suffer from IBS, why not click on the link above and participate in the study?

 

IBS Patient Symposium - UNC Center for Functional GI and Motility Disorders

Friday, July 21st, 2006

As promised, here is a recap from my trip down to Chapel Hill, North Carolina last Saturday for the UNC IBS Patient Symposium 2006.

Let me start with one overall observation: For somebody with IBS, attending this symposium is the equivalent of an average citizen sitting across from world leaders like George Bush, Tony Blair, Jaques Chirac, and Vladmir Putin at the G8 Summit and not only having the chance to listen in as they discuss the latest thinking on the world’s greatest problems, but also being able to raise your hand and have them answer any question you care to ask. Sponsored by the University of North Carolina Center for Functional GI and Motility Disorders and taught by its world-renowned faculty, this is truly a one-of-a-kind event because it’s the only IBS conference that’s specifically geared not toward doctors, but toward patients. In other words, even I could understand what they were talking about - well, most of the time, anyway.

First, the bad (and perhaps obvious) news: Even the world’s leading IBS experts still don’t know exactly what causes IBS or how to cure it. Complicating matters, because no two people suffer from IBS in exactly the same way, there is still no single treatment method that will work for everybody.

Now, having said that, I came away from the conference feeling very optimistic about the progress being made with IBS research and treatment options. Please note that many of the symposium’s presentations went into quite a bit of technical/medical detail, and I have done my layman’s best to accurately paraphrase the highlights of what is by nature a complex subject matter. I apologize in advance for any innacuracies or mischaracterizations.

Dr. Doug Drossman kicked off the day with the most welcome assurance that even though IBS is a functional disorder (meaning that the diagnosis is based on the presence of specific symptoms rather than the presence of an organic disease that might show up in colonoscopies, blood tests, etc), the condition is indisputably very real. While the exact mechanism is still not completely understood, he went on to explain that a great deal of the recent IBS research has focused on the two-way interaction between the brain and the gut. While people with IBS often have a lower threshold for pain in their digestive tracts (aka “visceral hypersensitivity”), evidence shows that these pain signals from the gut are often exaggerated or amplified by the time they reach the brain. To make matters worse, when the brain receives these amplified pain signals, it reacts with its own stress response by releasing something called CRH, a hormone associated with stress and anxiety that causes the bowels to go into instantaneous overdrive, more so in people with IBS. Not surprisingly, the hottest area in IBS research is the effort to develop a CRH antagonist, a drug that will block the release of this hormone responsible for the body’s overreaction to stress. Unfortunately, it looks as though it will be another two or three years before any of these treatments come to market.

After learning that the brain-gut connection is a key component in IBS and that the disorder is neither purely physiological nor completely psychological, Dr. William Whitehead addressed some of the common risk factors associated with IBS. Many of us with IBS have heard people - sometimes even doctors - tell us that IBS is caused by stress, or by anxiety, or by eating the wrong types of foods, or, in some cases, by an overgrowth of bacteria in the small intestine. According to Dr. Whitehead, while these are certainly risk factors that are assoiciated with, and can exacerbate or trigger, IBS symptoms, there is no conclusive evidence that they cause IBS. Furthermore, he said that researchers are increasingly coming to the conclusion that IBS is not even one single disease, but rather many different diseases.

Building on the discussion about the role of the brain-gut connection, Dr. Charles Burnett explained how cognitive-behavioral therapy teaches IBS patients to improve their symptoms by literally changing the way they consciously think about their symptoms (to learn more about cognitive-behavioral therapy, or to find a therapist near you, visit www.academyofct.org). Presenting a compelling case for treating IBS with hypnotherapy, Dr. Olafur Palsson described how this alternative treatment method, which uses safe and relaxing subconscious suggestions to improve the interaction between the brain and the gut, has consistently produced a response rate that exceeds 80% in studies published to date (to locate a practitioner who is licensed to treat IBS patients using Dr. Palsson’s standardized word-by-word IBS Treatment Protocol, please visit www.ibshypnosis.com).

Following a full morning of digesting the latest and greatest IBS knowledge, it was time to digest some much-needed lunch. While people at the other tables got to sit down for an informal Q&A session with the symposium’s speakers and other members of the UNC Center’s faculty, I enjoyed the chance to sit down and talk with Jeff Roberts. For those of you who might not recognize the name, Jeff is the pioneer who founded the IBS Self-Help Group and single handedly created an online community where millions of isolated IBS sufferers from around the world can connect with each other to compare notes, share resources, and support one another. He’s an incredibly nice guy, and it was a real honor to sit down and chat with someone who has done so much to raise public awareness for IBS.

After lunch, the all-star lineup of speakers continued. Taking a break from the scientific and medical jargon that characterized the morning sessions, Nancy Norton, President and Founder of the International Foundation for Functional Gastrointestinal Disorders, addressed a far more human topic, one that could only be covered by somebody who has personally lived with IBS. Nancy’s keynote, as the title “How to Talk with Your Doctor” suggests, focused on how uncomfortable so many people are when it comes to discussing their bowel habits or bowel irregularities with their physicians. It’s worth noting that many doctors are also reluctant to breach this awkward ground. The tragedy of this “failure to communicate” (to steal a phrase from the movie Cool Hand Luke) is that because the doctor comes away from the appointment having no idea what the patient is really experiencing, the patient leaves the office without a proper diagnosis and, in all likelihood, without an effective treatment plan to improve his symptoms. In addition to urging patients to be their own advocates when talking with their doctor, Nancy offered two great pieces of tangible advice: First, it’s important for patients to explain not only their symptoms, but also to explain specifically how their symptoms impact their day-to-day life; Second, to ensure that your doctor is fully engaged in the dialogue at hand, ask, “What else can I tell you that will help you understand me better?”

OK, that’s a wrap. As always, I’d love to hear from you, so please feel free to post a comment or, if you like, go to the “contact me” link on my homepage and email me directly.

Tim

 

Radio Interview This Afternoon - Martha Stewart Living Channel (Sirius Satellite) 1:00 - 2:00 pm EST

Friday, June 16th, 2006

For those of you who asked about the details of this afternoon’s interview, here you go:

I’m going to be interviewed by Dr. Brent Ridge, who hosts a live program called The Visiting Hour on the Martha Stewart Living channel on Sirius Satellite radio (it’s channel #112). From what I understand, today’s entire show, which will run from 1:00 to 2:00 pm (EST) is going to focus exclusively on IBS. I am scheduled to be the show’s wrap-up guest from about 1:40 to 2:00 pm.

If you want to listen in today but you’re not a subscriber to Sirius, I learned you can go to the Sirius web site and sign up for a free 3-day trial which takes about 30 seconds to sign up for.

Thanks,

 Tim