FAQ
Is Tim Phelan your real name?
Yes, it is. And… yes, my initials really are “T.P.” Coincidence? Highly unlikely.
On the front cover of the book, is that you sitting on the toilet?
Of all the frequently asked questions, this is by far the MOST frequently asked. And the answer is, no, that is NOT me.
Why did you decide to write a memoir about living with IBS?
Basically, I wanted to help raise awareness for IBS. While I hope the book’s offbeat and humorous tone will appeal to a wide audience, I decided to share my personal story primarily to help shine a spotlight on the serious impact of IBS and erase some of the stigma that prevents a majority of IBS sufferers from seeking medical treatment. I want all those people who feel so isolated with their IBS to know that they’re not alone. But I also want the rest of the world - everybody who doesn’t have IBS - to understand the challenges that 1 out of 5 people privately struggle with every day. I really just want to make the taboo topic of IBS more comfortable for people to discuss openly.
What should I do if think I have irritable bowel syndrome?
Whatever you do, don’t make the mistake of diagnosing yourself (like I did) and trying to “cure’ yourself (like I also foolishly tried…repeatedly). Seriously, get over any embarrassment you might have and talk to your doctor about your symptoms. And if your doctor doesn’t take your symptoms seriously, well, go to a different doctor, or maybe considering seeing a specialist like a gastroenterologist. Don’t stop until you find one who is knowledgeable about diagnosing and treating IBS.
If I don’t have IBS, will I like Romance, Riches, and Restrooms?
Yes, without a doubt. But don’t just take my word for it. Check out these reviews:
Kirkus Discoveries called Romance, Riches, and Restrooms:
“…engrossing in every sense…With its slapstick social faux pas, goofball charm and thunderous flatulence, somebody in Hollywood ought to be calling.”
POD Critic wrote:
“The author’s struggles with the disorder are penned with a rare precision that is at times enrapturing—given the level of writing—and at times as suspenseful as anything I’ve read in a good mystery. Some scenes will leave you on the edge of your seat… In short, the book is an impressive contribution that is as important for its subject matter as for its entertainment value.”
How do I get a signed copy of Romance, Riches, and Restrooms?
That’s easy. First, you send me an email with your name, mailing address, and the message you would like me to write on the title page (if you want me to come up with the inscription, I’m happy to do that, too). Second, I’ll send you an invoice that you can pay securely online through PayPal. Third, when I receive your payment, I’ll mail the personally signed copy out to you via USPS Priority Mail.
Will you come and talk to my book club?
The short answer is, yes, I love attending book club meetings and am always interested in doing more of them. If your club meets within a reasonable driving distance of Philadelphia, that greatly increases the odds of me showing up in person. But definitely let me know if you’re near San Francisco, Denver, New York, or Washington, DC because I do travel to those cities with some regularity (no pun intended). Of course, if an in-person visit isn’t possible, I’m always happy to call into the meeting by phone.
Are you available for interviews?
Yes, absolutely. Please send me an email with your request, and I’ll be happy to schedule a time to talk.
In the past year, I’ve been interviewed by major media outlets (US News & World Report), nationally syndicated radio programs (The Health Show, The Visiting Hour with Dr. Brent Ridge on Sirius radio’s Martha Stewart Living Channel), local newspapers, and several writing, IBS, and health-related blogs. For a complete list of past interviews, please go my Reviews & In The News.
Where can I go to learn more about irritable bowel syndrome?
Please visit my IBS Resources page for a list of organizations and web sites that offer helpful and reliable information about IBS.
Are you cured?
No, even though I’ve made dramatic progress in learning how to better manage my symptoms, I still have IBS.
Can I be your friend on MySpace?
Yes, of course! Just go to my page and send me a friend request, and I’ll be happy to add you.
Will you do speaking engagements?
Yes, absolutely! I’m always interested in speaking about my experiences from Romance, Riches, and Restrooms and raising awareness for IBS to as many audiences as I can find (colleges, high schools, medical conferences, etc).
I’ve done quite a bit of public speaking over the years, and my background includes the San Francisco Stand-Up Comedy College, Toastmasters International (CTM designation for Competent Toastmaster), and the National Speakers Association. To watch a sample video clip from one of my speeches, visit my MySpace page and scroll down to the video clips.
What’s your favorite brand of toilet paper?
I’m amazed at how many people ask me this one. My absolute favorite brand of toilet paper in the whole wide world is always whatever brand happens to be readily available at that crucial moment when it just won’t do to be without any of it. Oh sure, I’ll happily take Charmin Ultra Soft any day of the week, but I’m honestly thankful for whatever I can get.
Do you prefer any particular make or model of toilet?
I’ve learned that there are a ton of people out there who swear by one brand. Look, as long as it flushes properly and is protected by a door that can be securely locked, I couldn’t care less who manufactures the thing.
Why are two different editions of Romance, Riches, and Restrooms listed for sale on Amazon? One has a list price of $14.95, the other is $19.95. Which one should I order?
Both editions are virtually identical, but you should definitely buy the $14.95 version (Amazon discounts it down to $10.17). It’s the most recent edition, released in August 2007 under the iUniverse Star imprint, and I’m proud to say that it replaces the $19.95 edition that was originally self-published in May 2006.